http://www.kismate.com/blog Kismate, a play between three words: Kismat (meaning destiny), Kiss (meaning intimacy), and Mate (meaning patnership). To add your own blog click on the Site Admin link at the bottom. Sun, 22 Mar 2009 20:53:11 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Parties.. singles mixers... speedating... Shaadi.. Match... blah blah blah.... thats what it all feels like after you been seeking a partner in life and have tried soo soo many approaches.  I am exhausted, but yet still single. What to do? Most of my friends are married, but I know alot ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=17 I thought I would share this because it will no doubt happen to someone else. I'm a physician and I grew up watching the same Bollywood movies as other Desi kids. Assuming that as long as I worked hard someday my Raj/Rahul/Prem would show up and he would ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=16    Sometimes there are just no reasons why things in life happen the way they do.  My story begins quite some time ago.   After going to law school and becoming a lawyer I figured that there was more to life than just work.   Life for me is about sharing its ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=14 So my girlfriend and I decided to go to a lounge over the weeekend.  While my girlfriend talked to her guy, I ended up talking to her boyfriend Raj's friend, who I shall call CHEAPSTER.   At the lounge, CHEAPSTER and my conversation was great, maybe this was because I had ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=11 1.  Guys, dating tip #1 is don't ask a girl out by text message or by e-mail.   Even if you are following up after a date, don't follow up by a text message or an e-mail, it's so impersonal.  2.  On the first date, regardless of whether the girl asks you ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=10 i think  dating sucks... jus cuz it does!!! http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=9 Dress Classy!  You may want to show off your stuff to capture his attention, but once that's done, its time to start a new strategy.  You don't want him to think that you are willing to show off all the time, in the end you want him to respect you ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=7 Kismate's launch event is a great way to meet new South Asians. By playing fun ice breakers you will “Break the Ice” and meet new friends. We will provide the time and place, all you have to do is show up!            Break the Ice:  Kismate Launch    Tangier Lounge 2138 Hillhurst Ave Los Angeles, ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=3 Can you believe this actually happened to me? http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=6 Gentlemen, if you want to make that lasting first impression, or want things to move forward with a pre-existing relationship, here's a few tips to knock that girl off her feet: - Hit the Gym!  And i'm not talking two or three days before the date, I mean make it a ... http://www.kismate.com/blog/?p=5